Friday, October 1, 2010
Shocking news : My friend is a Gangster
A few days ago, there was an argument broke out between me and a friend of mine. It was like history repeats itself. I was getting tired to argue with her. Same old things. Was trying to understand her and everyone in between and at the end of the day i was being victimised. Heck!!! I told my friends to liaise with her if anything by any means. I ain't going to contact her for a while.
However, we talked things out and pour our thoughts. To find that it was all a misunderstanding and fear of the other person to be 'overrule' of the situation. In other words, fear of condemnation.I was afraid that she will be the history that occurred which it did. For her, she was afraid that I would condemn before she react therefore she reacted and takes 'control'.
First when i heard her reason i was quite puzzle..Why would i want to condemn her??? I had nothing to even start off the condemnation. She told me that 'ME' makes her goosebump if ever i were to start condemning so0 taking precautions, she started it. That is utterly ridiculous cause i won't start unless u starts it. So0 technically, she was pushing my button.
Nevertheless, I was curious on why she would even think that i would start the engine first and she told me that with the 'fights' i told her about gives her the 'protection' needed if it comes to her.She describes me as fierce and 'violent'...More or less like a gangster when comes to fight.
I laughed my heart out! I know that i was fierce in a way, if u give me one slap..I will give u ten times punch..But not anymore, im trying to make things or situations more rational and if it got out of hand, that attitude is my biggest weapon. Lucky for her, i couldn't care less about using it cause i had enough with humans that forget their origins...
Hope that we learnt alot more about each other this time and will keep on learning....
Friends Forever...